關於情感的雙語格言（二）

26. If you feel like your ship is sinking, it might be a good time to throw out the stuff that’s been weighing it down. Let go of people who bring you down, and surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you.

當你感到自己的船在下沉的時候，最好扔掉船上承重的東西。放開讓你傷心的那些人，擁抱發掘你美的那些人。
 

27. Just because it didn’t last forever, doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth your while.

不要因爲一段情不能長久，就意味着不值得擁有。
 

28. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t expect others to read your mind, and don’t play games with their heads and hearts. Don’t tell half-truths and expect people to trust you when the full truth comes out. Half-truths are no better than lies. And don’t ignore someone you care about, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words.

說你所想，表裏如一。不要指望別人來讀懂你的心思，也不要玩弄猜心遊戲。不要講半真半假的謊話，真相大白時還指望別人相信你。因爲半真半假的謊話也是謊話。不要忽略自己在乎的人，因爲缺乏關心和氣話一樣傷人。
 

29. Lies help no one in the long run. So… 1) Don’t say “I love you” if you don’t mean it. 2) Don’t say “I understand” if you have no clue. 3) Don’t say “I’m sorry” if you’re not. 4) Be honest with yourself and your loved ones.

謊言長久不宜，因此：1)如果你不是真心，不要說“我愛你”。2)如果你毫不知情，不要說“我理解”。3)如果你沒有歉意，不要說“對不起”。4)真誠地對待自己和自己所愛的人。
 

30. Tell the truth, or eventually someone will tell it for you.

不要撒謊，否則總有一天有人會揭露真相。
 

31. Good relationships don’t just happen; they take time, patience and two people who truly want to work to be together.

幸福的感情不是自然而然的，而是要花時間和耐心，兩個人真心努力在一起所有的。
 

32. Falling in love is not a choice. To stay in love is.

戀愛不需要選擇，守住愛情才需要。
 

33. Love doesn’t hurt. Lying, cheating and screwing with people’s feelings and emotions hurts.

愛情本不傷人。傷人的是感情的欺騙和背叛。
 

34. When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option but a priority. Loyalty is everything.

對於感情，保持忠貞不是可有可無，而是必須的。忠貞是愛情的一切。
 

35. A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences.

幸福的愛情兩要素：第一，欣賞彼此相似之處;第二，尊重對方不同之處。
 

36. Jealousy is the art of counting someone else blessings instead of your own. Don’t waste your time on jealousy. The only person you’re competing against is yourself.

嫉妒是拋開自己的幸運，而只計數他人幸運的藝術。不要把自己的時間浪費在嫉妒上，我們自己纔是自己唯一的勁敵。
 

37. Do not become possessive. The purpose of a relationship is to complement each other, grow together, and achieve your common goals as a couple. At the same time, you must each maintain your individual identity as a human being.

愛情的意義不是佔有，而是爲了相得益彰，共同成長，一起實現共同目標結爲連理;同時，在感情中雙方保持自我。
 

38. Don’t ever change just to impress someone. Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a better future.

改變自己，讓自己更優秀，未來更美好。永遠不要刻意爲他人而改變自己。
 

39. Give, but don’t allow yourself to be used. Listen to others, but don’t lose your own voice.

付出而不被利用，傾聽而不失自我的聲音。
 

40. Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems; look forsomeone who will face them with you.

不要等待有人來解決你所有的問題，要去尋找一個願意和自己一起解決問題的人。
 

41. You don’t really need someone to complete you. You only need someone to accept you completely.

你真的不需要一個人來完美自己，只需要一個人徹底地接納自己。
 

42. Speak when you are very angry, and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret.

生氣時所言必將後悔。
 

43. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Let it go.

放開怨恨，怨恨是幸福的毒藥。
 

44. As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones.

隨着年紀的增長，我們意識到，朋友的數量不再重要，重要的是朋友的質量。
 

45. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

生病的時候，工作不會照顧你，但朋友會。請時常聯繫你的'朋友。
 

46. Respect is earned, honesty is appreciated, trust is gained, and loyalty is returned.

爭取的是尊重，欣賞的是誠實，贏得的是信任，回報的是忠心。
 

47. Never waste a moment, it may be the last with someone you love.

珍惜在一起的每分每秒，因爲，有可能這是最後一次和你愛的人在一起。
 

48. If you love someone, tell them. Forget about the rules or the fear of looking ridiculous. What is really ridiculous is passing up on an opportunity to tell someone that your heart is invested in them.

愛他/她，就告訴他/她。不要被規則束縛，不要害怕被笑。因爲真正好笑的是失去表白自己內心的機會。
 

49. Nobody gets through life without losing someone they love, someone they need, or something they thought was meant to be. But it is these losses that make us stronger and eventually move us toward future opportunities.

一個人的人生總是要失去所愛的人、所需的人、又或者理所當然的事物。但正是因爲這些失去，讓我們更加堅強，最終走向未來的成功。
 

50. Never stop doing little things for others. Sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts.

堅持從小事幫助他人，有時，對需要的人而言，小幫助卻是大恩德。